Whenever I write Benji into a page I have to catch myself and not age him too much. Before my first son was born I struggled to get Benji’s age right. There are a ton of developmental milestones a child reaches just before they turn one and I had no clue what they were. After he was born, I found myself watching my son very closely and trying to incorporate his actions onto Benji’s. The problem is that Benji is still only two, while my son is now eight. Technically Benji should not be saying all that much, and should just be starting the potty training process. I’m sure there’s someone out there who’s jonesing to hold me to the fire about Benji not being an accurate two year old.